Change the way you see.

by Tanya

Have you ever felt that you are unheard or misunderstood? How do you react to those kinds of situations? What do you feel like doing? Does it make you angry or emotional? Does the situation increases the blood flow speed in your body or does it freezes your veins?

Well, these are a lot of questions to wonder upon but don't worry I am here to help you, how to cope up with these problematic solutions.

Imagine you are in a situation, where you are angry upon a teammate, and he had a genuine reason for not completing his work. But at that particular time, you are like a volcano, erupting inside, What will you do?

I think anyone would get angry, upon that, it's an overwhelming feeling, but its partially okay to release the anger in a more proper way, something which puts up your thought and viewpoint to the other person, and which not exactly hurts him/her.

So, basically, if we try to keep our anger aside for a while, and just see a particular situation from the perspective of a third person's eye, then it will surely avoid many conflicts in your life, making your life smooth, life would be so easy if we can do such kind of behavior with everyone, But, unfortunately, this certainly does not happen in our day to day life.

so, In order to deal with such situations, I would like to give you some examples which are as follows,

So, I would like to give you an instance, 2 days back, I was watching a movie, You will also remember if you watch Bollywood movies, the movie was based on the biography of Mahendra Singh Dhoni. Yes, it's one of my favorite movies, and I really found the movie inspirational, seeing the hardships of one of the best players, that the Indian cricket team has got, the fact that you all know that he has been one of the coolest captains of Indian Cricket team, going through all the hardships, and tedious situations of his life, He is surely an inspiration to everyone,

Now, the question which must be coming into your mindful brain must be that why I am talking about him in such detail because I want to make you understand that he sees a particular situation, not in a normal way,

He thinks and sees beyond that, his intrinsic cooling power will make you jealous, that how can a person act so calm in such a disastrous situation, but yet he still makes to astonish everyone with his outstanding capability of decision-making skills in those hard situations.

So, when he can change the way he sees, then why can't you? think about it.

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