Forgiveness or Forgetfulness?

I guess you must have heard these two words more often than not, Right? So, I am not here to give a technological aspect to these two words, I am writing this very blog to address the mental situations that we face in our day to day life, You know It's very easy to give a speech you must be thinking, but I am not really here to give a long speech on the definition of forgiveness. Sometimes when we read, it kind of heals you from the inside, for example when you read a good book or a good writing piece, and what do I mean by good here, is that something which feeds your soul, it can be something which may not be written in a well-versed manner, but something which makes your soul relate to the written piece's situation.

So, without wasting much time, and coming to our topic,

you all are very well aware of what does it mean to forgive and forget someone, there are millions of people out there, who struggle to forgive someone in their life, I agree it's indeed a very hard thing to do, and it requires a great amount of emotional strength, to forget all the bad stuff related to a particular person, yes, it's surprisingly very hard, even for me as well, it hurts your soul, when someone very close to you, suddenly do something which you never ever expected them to do, something really awful, out of the blue, it hurts real bad.

But what if we are never able to forgive someone in our life, what should a person do in that situation, if you are the person who is at fault, and your best friend is upset from you and she's not ready to forgive you in any way, what will you do, in that very situation? Will you forget him/her? Or will you beg them to be in their life?

There are different kinds of people, coexisting in this vast world, right? if you see from a very big picture to this very situation, There are so many galaxies in this universe, the universe comprises of millions of galaxies, and in those millions, there is one galaxy named "Milky Way Galaxy" in which we live in, in that galaxy, we have a solar system which is quite huge, and among all the planets that the solar system comprises of, we have one planet 'Earth', where we have a biosphere, and all the homo sapiens live on the surface of the planet, not even inside the core, and that too must be living in just a small area of your city or colony, so now you see, even if you die, it doesn't; really affect much to this enormous universe.

So, don't get confused, what I meant is, all of us are actually tiny little creatures , who actually emphasize on such small things, in life, that isn't supposed to be done, forgiving someone is actually very easy if you see from this perspective, because we actually make these small situations larger than life, right? Think about this closely. And you will agree with me maybe.